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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thank you for sharing!

I was Nicole from Marriage Story. When Charlie said to her, “You chose this life! You wanted it until you didn’t. And then you blamed me for it!” It was like everything in my life snapped into place.

I hadn’t been communicating and instead had been blaming my husband for everything I hated about my life. I knew who I had married and I had happily gone along with it, encouraging him and his career, until I decided one day that I was unhappy and done doing that. It wasn’t fair to him at all when I had been supporting him. I iced my husband out, too. Blamed him foe everything, yet refused to communicate with him in a proper way what I wanted to change. I just assumed he should know. But my actions hadn’t supported that, so how would he have known I was unhappy if I wasn’t telling him?

That movie changed my view on life.[/quote]

Were you a cheater too?  Did you work on your marriage after that realization or end it?

I think so many women get into affairs in the first place by romanticizing the women they read about in books and in movies, where the affair is shown as a wonderful thing and the dark underside and trauma of what it does to others---or to them if discovered--is never shown.  Hollywood romanticizes infidelity.[/quote]

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