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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I would have a gentle but firm conversation with her that tells her the following: She is family, and your offer to her was heartfelt and genuine. She may stay as long as she needs, without paying rent. However the offer does not extend to anyone but her. Even if you don't mind this guy staying and hanging out, I wouldn't tell her that and don't make it about rent. If she wants to spend the night with him, or ayone else, it has to be at his place. You have two young kids, etc. You don't want strangers in yoru place; just her. Tell her that also applies to friends from college who might want to come crash on her sofa for a few weeks or whatever. NO ONE but her. You really don't want her staying there and living rent free for years, right? You want her to get on her feet, and then move out. Telling her no overnight visitors will help move her in the direction you want her to go.[/quote]
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