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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've been talking to this guy I work with. We started texting about random stuff, but I found myself talking to him like everyday. I look forward to his texts and random calls and it just gives me so much joy to talk to him. Problem is that I have a boyfriend. [b]I love my boyfriend and I don't want to jeapordize our relationship for this crush that may not develop into anything[/b]. I am not even sure he is into me but I do know he likes talking to me. He is pretty good looking and tells me about the dates he goes on. I do feel pings of jealousy sometimes. Should I just cut off contact slowly or pursue this? [/quote]

This statement is confusing to me, OP.  You say you love your boyfriend but the second half of that sentence reads to me that you're not willing to lose your boyfriend if nothing can happen with your crush.  Would you be willing to lose your boyfriend if you had a guarantee with your crush? [/quote]

She’s saying that she might be more attracted to this guy than to boyfriend. But if it’s going to fizzle she wants to stay with boyfriend. Who is tried and true.

OP, this is tricky. I think you know that work husband is not interested in pursuing a long term thing with you. His behavior — talking about dates flirtatiously and so on — suggests that he is a good time guy. But the fantasy is appealing and probably livens up your day. My advice, let yourself flirt and enjoy. If he’s at all serious he will be more direct. If he leaves it here that’s for a reason, he can’t see you as worth risking his whole situation either and the most it will be is a clandestine fling.

Flirt and do everything but cheat, bring those feelings of passion back into your relationship and yourself. This guy is pushing a button. He’s showing you what you need more of. So do you need it from him, or just in general? Be honest with yourself.[/quote]

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