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[quote=Anonymous]I met this guy a couple of months ago and we hit it off immediately. Lots in common and could talk for literal hours about a variety of subjects both in person and on the phone. He's funny, charming, smart, etc. Physically [u]everything[/u] was an A+. We were very vocal with how we were feeling about each other and reiterated often that we really liked each other. He mentioned that he was nervous about falling in love again, but there was no pressure and I assured him that we had time to figure all of that out. One night after being on the phone for hours we made plans to see each other again the next morning.

That was the last time I heard from him.

He inexplicably stopped responding to my calls and messages and seems to have blocked me. I was at first worried that something had happened to him but noticed about a week later that he updated the photos on his dating profile. I was (and am) devastated.
Why would someone do this? My friends suspect that he's a love-bomber and gets a high off of this feeling, then dashes. It was a brief relationship (?) but I started developing some pretty strong feelings and honestly, I'm having a hard time getting over it. I racked my brain with what in the world I could have done wrong, but nothing makes sense. Our last conversation ended with us going to bed and plans to see each other a few hours later, so what in the world could have happened overnight?

Why ghost someone? Why not say "I changed my mind and I no longer like you" or whatever?

Dating is emotionally draining.[/quote]

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