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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We may be oddities here but we don't really have major discussions about finances. We have 100% separate finances - banking, credit cards, savings, etc. and never thought to merge. It's just easier this way. I have my privacy in spending and DH has his. I (wife) pay nanny/childcare costs, sports fees, music, academics, and most kids activities. I save for the kids 529s and pay vacations. We never discussed why but it naturally evolved because I do the scheduling. DH pays for mortgage (though house is in both names), auto insurance, and cable/internet. Family insurance taken from DH's pay check. We'll pay for groceries as each one goes. [b]Our expenses ended up being relatively equal as far as monthly is concerned,[/b] though because I'm the greater earner I put more into savings accounts. Neither one of us is a huge spender. This has never been an issue and we've never fought about money. [/quote] Obviously, you have compared. What would you do if somehow one person paying x2 or x3 more? How would you handle that? [/quote]
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