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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It doesn't get fixed. You switch to online grocery delivery and schedule a ups pickup. Pick your battles and if all other aspects of them are good your just looking for a fight. Some people are not good at certain things and your spouse is not good at following directions given to them by you. There not flawed there just not a good grocery shopper and forgetful when things are out of sight by putting them in the trunk.[/quote] ^ this. I was resentful of similar behaviors in my spouse. I was able to let it go when I realized I ultimately still loved him and this wasn’t him showing me he didn’t care. We are just different, and me nagging and failing to acknowledge his strengths and what he brings to our relationship/family was me standing in my own way. Ironically when I truly moved on, he stepped up his grocery and errand game. [/quote]
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