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[quote=Anonymous]There are two different reasons for not speaking to someone.  One, because you need to process all your thoughts and emotions before you can have a productive conversation.  Two, because you want to punish the person.  This sounds like it's #1 for you, which is perfectly healthy.  And it sounds like you told him you needed some time to process it.   That's perfect.

As far as the alcohol goes, he may not be an alcoholic or even a binge drinker.   But it sounds like he's a problem drinker.  I don't like how stupid people act when intoxicated, but people can get super-drunk and still act safely and appropriately.   My line in the sand is no inappropriate or dangerous behavior.  Don't drink and drive.  Don't get verbally abusive.  Don't be embarrassing.  Don't get lascivious with someone who's not your partner, or with your partner when they don't want that type of attention.  If this stuff happens, that person is not adequately controlling their drinking and they need to figure out a better approach. [/quote]

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