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[quote=Anonymous]Been married 35 years to a good guy. We have a good. marriage, some ups and downs but he has been a good solid provider and loyal. We have 4 kids (all now grown). He has a friend who is such a fun guy buy a very heavy drinker. Definitely always the life of the party. Let's call him H. H brings out a much more outgoing version of my husband (which he generally is not) and he definably drinks a lot more when around H. sometimes to the point of "too much" and he can act silly, immature and just kind of sloppy. Not a good look AT ALL.

I am not a drinker, maybe a glass of wine and that's it so it really upsets me when this happens. I tend to be prim and proper and believe when you are 20 maybe that's OK but when you are in your 50's and 60's there is a way to act and behave. When my H drinks this way he becomes much more friendly and open as do many people, uninhabited. We were at a fundraiser about a week ago and H was there along with other friends. My H as he often does had a lot to drink with him and to me it was over the top. He was hanging out (or trying) with a lot of the younger people that were there and was acting very "friendly" to a few of the younger girls (one of whom was my sons gf). It was embarrassing and I have never seen him do anything like that before.

Of course he didn't realize how bad it looked and the next day had no real recollection other than he was trying to have fun. I haven't been able to talk to him this entire week.I was and am just so disgusted and embarrassed for him and myself. Maybe to some this is ok and not a bid deal but for a 63 year old man, I think its a very bad look. Even my daughter who was there was really upset and came down on him.

Am I being unreasonable by not speaking to him? I do not generally do this but am just so turned off right now. I feel like I need a break and also he needs to understand how inappropriate that was and how the general over drinking  is as well. Just need to vent.[/quote]

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