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[quote=Anonymous]I’ve been best friends with him for over half our lives (31 F & M). He met this 22 year old in June and they began dating. She has a 4 year old and isn’t a citizen. She doesn’t speak any English, which is fine, but that indicates that she hasn’t been here that long if she hasn’t picked up some conversational English. Today he tells me he’s going to propose to her and that they’ll be married next month. He said his sister isn’t happy about it because it’s too soon - they’ve been dating 4 months. While venting to me about his sister’s reservations he disclosed that his fiancé-to-be needs papers (I suspected this when he told me she didn’t know any English). I asked him if she was at risk of being deported and he said no and they had planned on waiting a year before getting engaged but didn’t see the point in waiting.

Her being so young, has a kid, and needing papers really concerns me. He is SO head over heels for her and now I’m a little worried. However, if they had planned on waiting a year then maybe it’s genuine on her end and I could be completely wrong about this?

Thoughts? Keep my mouth shut? [/quote]

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