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[quote=Anonymous]Victims of abuse as children tend to go one of two ways- towards doormat or towards abusers themselves. I went doormat 😞 My ex was abusive not from any family abuse but from bullying by other kids. So he developed terrible self-esteem and a super fragile ego- basically Narcissistic tendencies. That meant he needed to be controlling and critical all the time. He was never wrong, everything was always my fault. This led to physical abuse occasionally. Pls note I'm safe now I have no contact and I'm in a great marriage now after lots of therapy.[/quote]
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