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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The loud anger outbursts triggered by an accumulation of anything are scaring the children, and myself. I can’t stop them and I can’t tell when he’s about to blow.  
Today was a nice day, out of the house, mix of things. Then at dinner basically I start to ask something after not even being around and he cuts me off, raises his voice, name calls, etc all in front of the children. I hadnt even asked my question. Then starts with his blame game and ends with rewriting the whole situation, in front of the children. One child ran off upset. The other heard his re-version twice of what just went down and asked to go the bathroom.  I told him his temper is scaring everyone, which he blamed on me and a child earlier asking to do something.

Do anger mgmt classes work for this profile of person? Parenting classes didn’t help.
How do I get him to take the classes? I guess court ordered ones are only via a separation? 
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They cannot handle questions. At all. About anything. Even basic ones, and certainly not asking them what they thought about something (the play) or what happened over there (ie the big spill or mess).  You’ll get your head bit off.

I doubt anger management classes would work, though it’d be or for the course during any divorce for custody. Not that it would work, judge would just want the box checked.

I think they run out of gas by like 2pm, even a 5th coffee or Diet Coke won’t help.  Just send home home by 2pm and get more friends and support network.

Vacations are the worst w this type.  My HfA spouse hides behind the “I gotta do office work” safe zone easily over half the trip or more. Definitely every day. It used to be insulting, then he got his diagnoses and no one expects anything from him anymore. He is quite hyper once he has his 3 coffees from 6-7am…[/quote]

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