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[quote=Anonymous]DH and I have always had conflicts around how much space his stuff takes up, so this is not new. He has hoarding tendencies and a space-intensive hobby. We moved to a larger house in part because of his stuff, and he's taken over the whole basement already. Anyway, with his birthday and Christmas approaching, he has asked for an air fryer and a soda stream. These will both sit on the counter with his giant Keurig, plus the everyday stuff we both use like the knife block, kettle, and toaster. It's just very cluttered and I hate it. We had a regular fryer for a while and it was rarely used but also gross to store. His other gift requests, for example to family, are for his hobby that has taken over the basement. It feels wrong to tell him he "can't" have kitchen stuff. But where is a sensible and fair place to draw the line? Should I just try to rearrange the kitchen so these things are more hidden?[/quote]
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