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[quote=Anonymous]OP here - Thank you all for chiming in.

I agree lots of different opinions here and it's hard to take a guess at where she's coming from.

The only one I disagree with is that she's a user.  She's not really like that and I don't feel that way.

She may not like me, although she is always eager to talk, responds immediately for texts, wants to meet for coffee, etc.

I am torn between over sharer/wanting to make me jealous.  I don't find her malicious but she is also savvy enough to know that it's weird to send a picture of her daughter and another friend together, and that it certainly would make my daughter feel left out.  I don't ever share it with my daughter bc, why? and my daughter knows that they both do things with others, it just seems unnecessary.

However, I have had the thought that when I see her next that I ask her about it.  Something like, "Is there a reason that you would prefer that the girls not spend as much time together?"  I know that I won't, its just more of a thought in my mind. It does hurt my feelings, I will admit, that in 7 years, my daughter has been invited by her over to her home or whatnot, probably about 3-4 times, yet she will casually reference having other girls over.

The girls now largely plan things on their own.  Maybe I'll just take a little bit of a step-back from my end of the friendship.[/quote]

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