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[quote=Anonymous]Now that you all know that she will lash out if given any criticism, maybe quit the criticism so she doesn't cut you all off and you won't get to see the kid. You could get together with the grandparents and talk about how to deal with these ILs in a consistent, helpful, non-critical way that won't make them alienated from you. The kid is left alone, has unlimited screen time, is in a house too dirty for his asthma -- and that all sounds bad, but not so bad that you'd have the law intervene. If, for example, the parents were divorcing and one parent brought up those issues, the offending parent would have opportunities to remedy any issue like that, and it would not affect custody in the slightest. Unfortunately, it just doesn't rise to the level that you can do anything about it, the parents can do anything they want short of severe abuse, and apparently giving them constructive criticism is going to backfire. So, yeah, I think you need serenity. [/quote]
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