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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She’s not the one. There is a shelf life of 18 month-3 years when it’s someone not meant to be a long-term mate. When you find the one, you’ll know.[/quote] People tell me this, but I'm 38 and have been in many 2-3 year relationships. I am not so sure I buy the "not the one" argument. I'm willing to accept that I may be overly picky and some of it is on me. In other words, I don't think it's because I don't have a strong bond with this woman. I do. But I don't see love and physical attraction as the same. Totally bifurcated in my experience.[/quote] Go to individual therapy. You sound like my ex-wife that ended up having serial affairs.[/quote]
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