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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks to PPs. I will look into BPD. We are already low contact, and I think we are close to going no contact. The problem person has a child, who I worry is an innocent victim, but I'm also not sure realistically what we can do to help/ intervene.[/quote] So this is your siblings's spouse? Or your spouse's sibling? How is the spouse of this problem-person doing? You maybe stay in enough contact that the child can count on you as a safe/supportive person. If the kid has other interested people in his life, he'll likely be OK. It's a matter of how toxic/abusive this person is, and that can be a wide range. I think the idea that most narcissists are charming is a mostly a myth, and it came about because of the accounts of former romantic partners, who say, "he was so charming in the beginning," because that's when the narcissist is reeling them in, using everything they learn about the person to appear like the perfect match. For most people who are not potential romantic partners, the narcissist is not charming and even off-putting.[/quote]
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