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[quote=Anonymous]I've been on multiple sides of this--struggling to get pregnant (later IVF & endometriosis surgery x2), and telling others who were having their own struggles. I agree that a text is the easiest way to receive it. I'd also suggest trying to gauge when your friend is feeling optimistic and tell her then. The endo surgery can easily reveal bad news or good news, as there is typically a lot more that they can determine when the see inside vs. diagnostic imaging. I did little more than cry for a week after the first surgery. The second surgery felt much more hopeful. Every case will be different. The "oops" factor isn't such a big deal, or wouldn't have been for me. If she is a close friend, she will probably guess/know already, no point in hiding it, unless your confident she has no idea.[/quote]
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