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[quote=Anonymous]I kinda relate to this. We were together for 22 years, since we were 19. No kids. It ended when I discovered that he'd been hooking up with men, which came as a complete shock, and he's continuing to live as a "straight" man and few people know, so it's like the whole thing didn't happen. And I'm realizing now that I was also the victim of financial abuse -- him hiding money and me being trained to always "pay my share" to avoid his bad moods. Believe it or not, I thought we had a good marriage for most of it because we had a good time together and we didn't fight. But more and more, it all seems like an illusion. And since I have nothing to show for the last two decades, it feels like I'm still 20 and just starting out.[/quote]
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