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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He calls me names, yells, curses. Yesterday over nothing, he told me to “shut the f up”, “f off” and that I was a “shitty person”. I’ve tried everything I can think of to get this stop. I told him again this morning that it’s a deal breaker for me and if he can’t get a handle on the behavior then he can go to therapy and that I would too or go with him to save the relationship. He started yelling and said I yell and cuss too - I don’t. And that he’s not doing any such thing and if I don’t like it I can leave. So I did. He won’t. We’ve been married over a decade and have kids, and he is at home with our animals and kids. Because I just didn’t want our kids to witness it again. Please tell me what to do. I have no family. Should I keep working at this, do other people deal with their spouse talking to them like this? Is this worth destroying my family for?[/quote]

You are being abused, and he will start abusing your kids. And your kids are going to grow up seeing abuse as okay.[/quote]

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