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[quote=Anonymous]It’s happened twice now and I can’t figure it out. Twice I’ve had friends lose close loved ones and then I’m ghosted. What am I doing wrong? I can’t ask them because I would never make it about me, but I want to know what happened! The first, from behind the scenes I coordinated a gift card train from those of us who are friends but not local. I collected about $800 in grocery and close and deliverable restaurants near her, and had them securely delivered, signed delivery. I never got so much as an acknowledgement, which I didn’t expect, but what hurt was when she would take to Facebook to mention different flower bouquets or photo books, etc, that others had sent her. After that, when I would reach out, I never got responses. But about a month ago, she sent me a FB message asking about my life. I responded to her questions and asked about her. It shows read, but she never responded back. Had a closer friend suffer a loss recently. Sent food, helped but not too much, after the funeral, would send nice cards. Then my calls started going unanswered. There was a natural disaster near where she lives and texted, asked if it affected her, could I help in any way. All I got was, “Nope. Not close to us.” Why the silent treatment? Am I being too much?[/quote]
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