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[quote=Anonymous]So when she says that, respond back with, “So it was more important to take care of the feelings of others at the table over the feelings of your friend whose husband died. Rather than comforting me, it was more important to make others feel less awkward. That’s what you’re saying.” She’ll probably deflect again. Respond back with, “It may have been your intent to lighten the mood. You may not have intended to be hurtful. But what I need you to know is that it was hurtful. And rather than simply apologizing, you’re being defensive and putting this back on me. Again, my husband died. I sincerely hope you find a way to grow up. I’ve got to move on.” Be done with her, OP. You don’t need this. [/quote]
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