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[quote=Anonymous]My husband died last year and I was having a rough day. It was anniversary of his death. We were at lunch with friends and they asked how my weekend was and I said it was fine. They kept pushing, why was it just fine and I said "it's the one year anniversary of my husband's death".. my friend who I am the closest with laughed and said "hey at least you got to go to **** steakhouse and enjoy yourself".. I called her out on it separately and she said she jumped in so the other's wouldn't feel awkward and it's an innocent comment. I have really held back from talking about this over the course of the year but there's a rage inside of me because I have sat and listened to all these friends and the issues they have faced over the last few years and very very rarely made it about myself. We are talking about it tonight and I need the words to explain to my friend how I felt this was wrong of her and she should worry less about people feeling awkward and figure out how to support a close friend. We are close friends and see each other weekly and talk daily. [/quote]

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