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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don’t bother divorcing just establish a separate life with your own interests.[/quote] That is what I did once my kids left for college. I earn more money and don't want to be in a position of paying him spousal support. So, I keep my money separate and live my life. [/quote] Agree, and the key for making this all workable for OP is - do not react when he is trying to push your buttons. He does this because your reactions amuse him. My husband used to threaten to divorce me if we were disagreeing about something. Once I stopped reacting and was like, well, do what you’ve got to do, he stopped that sh*t. You need to detach emotionally. Not ideal for a marriage, but necessary in situations like this. [/quote]
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