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[quote=Anonymous]You are not a shit person; you are an abused person. The affair sounds like an act of desperation for help to extricate yourself from a situation where you are in over your head. If I had to guess, you are simultaneously worried about the pragmatics of how to separate (sounds like he controls the finances), his emotional reaction (are you afraid of physical harm and/or smear campaign?), and the worst - you are afraid no one would ever want you and you will have to face this sh*t storm all alone, and on top of that, you deserve to be punished because you had an affair. Girl, please see a competent therapist ASAP who has experience counseling abused women. This man has done a number on you. Forget the affair. You ended that years ago and you are fully aware now that you need better coping strategies. Set up a support system to help you get out of that relationship and back on your feet. You deserve to have an abuse-free and happy life. [/quote]
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