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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’ve been with my girlfriend for about a year and a half. We discussed moving into together this time next year. We had been pretty up front with each other in that we weren’t ready to make the move to that yet plus there are rental leases involved so we would have to wait for those to be up before anything. Suddenly she has started talking of buying an home in her name and talking about how she doesn’t see herself staying in DC for very long, maybe a few more years at the most.

Is the writing on the wall that this relationship is over? We both saw each other as “the one” but my gut is telling me that maybe that isn’t the case anymore. We have such good communication and I plan to ask more about what she sees in the future but didn’t want to ruin her family trip this week. [/quote]

In life long marriages, one spouse may lose their job and have to relocate.  A child may need a trial medical treatment that causes relocation.  A parent may be terminally ill and closer caretaking may be requested.  I think you just don't want to admit you're looking for reason after reason to become one of the 40+ never marrieds who wonder why there are so many male factor infertility ICSI treatments around here.  Stop assuming the grass is going to be greener and propose NOW and move into the house.  There's always a negative and you didn't list any horrible red flags with her.[/quote]

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