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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here again. He doesn't believe in therapy and never apologizes for ANYTHING, which says a lot. If you want to have a real heart to heart, he clams up. He was always this way on and off but it's become even more pronounced during the pandemic and being stuck at home teleworking with him. Unless things are on his terms or he just happens to be in a great mood, it's very uncomfortable. There's just too much disconnect. Even the idea of inviting over friends is a big deal. Too much preparation and he'll declare he's not involved.

Back to the insecurity... one thing I've noticed is that he's not at ease around other men. He has only one male friend he's close to, but everyone else he just doesn't want to get to know. it's as if he's happy to be polite but also seems to write them off. [/quote]

Man, this sounds like my exH who was in the autism spectrum.  I tried everything but he only got worse, more uncommunicative, angrier, more meltdowns, more isolating. Terrible role model for the kids and they started copying his lies, deflections, and stonewalling.  I didn’t really have a choice to stay, he wasn’t a father or husband or friend. [/quote]

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