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Reply to "Should I have a second kid at 38 (DH 52), or are we just too old? "
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[quote=Anonymous]You're not too old, but he kind of is. And if you feel too old, you are too old. But it seems like you need to do some work on yourself. Why does it bother you that he travels to see his adult kids? That's what a good father should do. Did you not know about this before you had this child? And if you can afford a night nurse, surely you can afford a lot of childcare when your DH travels. It sounds like you haven't really wrapped your head around that you joined a stepfamily and that your children are #3 and #4 of your DH. Children in larger families just don't get the same level of parental attention that they would in a small family. If you had borne 4 children with your DH, you'd likely be spending weekends alone with the younger two while your DH took the big ones to travel soccer tournaments or whatever. [/quote]
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