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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] . . .I try and make good eye contact, ask good questions, listen more than I talk. I don't avoid talking politics or religion altogether - I do like to clear the air to make sure we're at least somewhat compatible on those things - but I don't go overboard with the opinions or obsess about it on a first or second date. . .

One theory I have is that maybe I'm "trying too hard" playing up the parts about myself I think are interesting. I like to talk about the different travel experiences and adventures I've had, the more unusual experiences and accomplishments - not in a braggadocious way, but in a "let me tell you this interesting story" kind of way, . . .

Any insights appreciated - I won't get offended. I'm just so sick of being so unremarkable and pass-over-able. [/quote]

First: your post was a wall of text & your conversation is likely the same way. Stop talking too much.

Second: politics?  Why??  We get it: you are a proud educated liberal woman.  So are 99% of the women in the dating pool here, and you date already knows that. Politics is a turn off.  Just don’t go there.  At all.  Same with religion.  Just don’t.

Finally, we all know the definition of braggadocious, but do you actually speak that way? You can tone it down and still come across as highly intelligent.  Use of arcane vocabulary comes across as pretentious on a date.

Keep the questions coming, and hugs!  Your match is out there, so keep looking.[/quote]

So don’t talk too much, assert your values and morals, or use big words. Be passive and meek and demure. Women should be seen and not heard and preferably in the kitchen making a sandwich. [/quote]

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