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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This sounds like me six years ago and nothing changed. When my youngest went off to college I left too and I had had two years to plan for it. The only one who was surprised was my ex who was shocked that I would leave her and break up our home. My kids were not surprised and they were happy for me. They are doing very well and so am I so it’s worked out. There is a certain failure about a marriage ending but keeping a failed marriage going is even worse. [/quote] In hind sight were you glad you waited until they went off to college or do you wish you would have done it sooner?[/quote] Once I made my decision it was only two years which is not a long time and my angst level went way down during that period because I was no longer investing and wasting my time in making it work. I would not have done it sooner because I really felt I was the good parent who my kids needed around them. My kids are now much closer to me than they are to my ex. [/quote]
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