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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]A couple I know co sleeps with both DDs. The oldest is 8, the youngest is 2. I know it’s none of my business, but when the conversation comes up I have a really hard time not saying anything. I don’t think it’s normal, and I feel like I must say something, but I’m afraid to do so, because I don’t think anything wrong is happening, other than general bad practice. And I don’t want a fight to start with this people. Do you think this is ok? Would you say something? [/quote] “Bad practice”? Related to what? Why do you need to say something? You don’t have to voice an opinion every time you disagree do you? That’s actually “bad practice”. Not sure why the topic comes up, but you do so many things then, like commiserate about how hard it is to get kids to sleep, or something. Don’t be so convinced that you’re right, just because it was your choice. The flip side is They may look at you as having horribly bad practice for leaving a child alone and vulnerable at night. That sharing a bed confers safety and security to their family. I feel like cosleeping is another one of those things that people don’t realize is more common that they realize, and it happens for a variety of reasons. It’s another one of those taboos that no one talks about because kids are supposed to be independence this from birth, and seen and not heard in this society. [/quote]
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