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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I know this feels hard and insurmountable, but please know - this has nothing to do with you, your gender, or how attractive you are.

That said, I’d probably look to some individual counselling.

There is a LGT forum on here, but I don’t think it gets great traffic.

Here’s the thing: you want this “solved” and honestly, that’s not likely to occur quickly. Not sure of your age, but chances are your DH has gotten to try on nailpolish, clothing, etc. as a kink, and not as an identity. It takes longer than that to unravel all the teaching of our youth. His needing to unravel is is exactly because he now hasn’t, children, an identity, which is a little more complicated than those 20 year olds.

I guess they question is can you love them if they’re not a he?

I know it doesn’t feel fair, but if this is honestly what he’s feeling, then you need to come up with your own devious, which you can do. But you need to also evaluate how you will feel if he is now a they, and recognize that your feelings about that partnership are not less valid.m

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