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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Everybody get jitters and cold feet.  You can always get divorced.  It attaching to your best friend, not a chain gang picking cotton.[/quote]

My mom said this "Everybody get jitters and cold feet.  You can always get divorced." In OP's case, he or she probably just has normal nervousness. In my case, it was worse and I really had major issues with getting married but that "everybody get jitters and cold feet: You can always get divorced" message pushed me to do it. Biggest mistake of my life. Turns out "just getting divorced" is not that easy. I was about to do that and had an unplanned pregancy. Kept me in the marriage nearly 8 more years just as a was planning to divorce.

You have to really know if you want to be with that person and if you really want to be married. If you really love the person and can't imagine your life without them, get married. If you are doing it because people are saying "it is okay to be nervous just get a divorce if it does not work"...don't do it. Or postpone until you know.[/quote]

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