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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m at like you, but DH adores me and does almost anything I ask. In past relationships, me being nice kept relationships afloat. We didn't really fight so nothing to end things for awhile. But those guy were not as into me. If I asked for too much they would’ve bolted sooner. They just didn’t have that intense of feelings where it was worth staying.

What I have found is that men that have more intense feelings for women will let the women have whatever they want and do what lever they say. You need to find the man that truly adores you. [/quote]

Yes, this.  When a man is in love, he will do whatever the woman wants.  Use the power wisely.

Also, there's some internalized misogyny going on too.  I think OP might be one of those women who think that when a woman expresses a need or sets a boundary, she is "treating her man like crap" instead of, you know, being a full human being.

Lastly, read up on John Gottman and his research.  One of the key principles to a lasting marriage is one where the man lets himself be influenced by the woman.  There is not a similar correlation the other way, because women are already very good at taking influence from men.  [/quote]

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