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[quote=Anonymous]I am in a relationship with a man who was to marry me. I am 38 and really want to marry and have children. About 18m ago I started seeing a male therapist (I am female) about relationship issues and why I was still single and a few months later met my current BF/almost-fiancé who decided early on that I was the one. It was mutual at first but then I started having doubts based in our disagreements on what to do next/next life steps and also his communication/argument style which over time has been more frustrated and harsh. Have expressed doubts to therapist, and he keeps telling me we are not meant to have everything we want in life at the same time, and that I have to “make [BF] the right person.” Am so confused about how to proceed. On one hand have my doubts, on other hand this could be my last chance to get married and have kids an am trying to get over doubts with help of therapist but not sure I should. Background I wasn’t abused or have any huge trauma that should prevent pairing which really want in life. I’m just introverted and insecure and have a hard time meeting men despite being physically attractive and intelligent. So if I break up with BF it’s unlikely someone new would surface in time to reproduce.[/quote]

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