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[quote=Anonymous]Yes, and the drama from the friendship really hurt my confidence and identity. When I started pulling away bc I began to recognize her abusive behavior, she lashed out and started telling others all sorts of lies. People who heard her kept trying to "both sides" what was happening, suggesting things were all relative, as if we've both been equally abusive and manipulative. I just realized there was no point in engaging or trying to defend myself or explain. The more you try to do that, the more drama you get drawn into and legitimize the abusive person. I had to kind of distance myself from others I loved, but eventually they also began to realize how problematic that person is.[/quote]
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