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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No one is entitled to impose into anyone else’s life so by definition the people doing the cutting off are always on the “right side”. The attitude that your adult children owe you something is exactly what leads to estrangement. [/quote]

It’s not always so black and white. Our DD cut us off b/c she thought our rules that drugs may not enter our home was unreasonable. She also thought that dating a twice convicted drug dealer was acceptable and that bringing that individual into our home, when we were not home was acceptable.  Worse, she brought this creep around her minor brother & sister, while we were out of town. She opted to leave, drop out of college & cut us off because these behaviors were not acceptable in our home. When I say drugs, I’m referring to pills & LSD.   It’s horrid and sad but she refuses help & therapy.  She is her own worst enemy. As parents, we have to protect all of our kids, particularly the minors.  As she’s over 18, we can’t do much except offer help, therapy & support.  [/quote]

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