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[quote=Anonymous]I’m early thirties and have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year. We are at a point where we are at at tong to talk about marriage and kids. I’m really unsure if I want kids. I’m leaning towards no. For most of my life and up to about two years ago, I always thought I wanted kids. I wanted to get married and have 2-3 kids. These past couple of years I’ve been unsure if I really want them. There are many times where I can’t even imagine life with kids. I see some of my friends and co-workers with kids and think about having that, and other times I hear about the horrible tantrums, no time for yourself, kids putting strain on a marriage, etc., and I feel happy I don’t have kids. I feel like I can picture myself having a sweet baby but nothing beyond that. I don’t know if I have it in me to be a mom. I can’t even picture myself as a mom of an older kid or teen. There are times where I’m relieved I don’t want kids, and other times I wish I had them. I know I need to make a decision and I don’t know what to do. It’s not fair for him to marry someone who is unsure of having kids, but I don’t want to lose him and maybe regret having kids. [/quote]

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