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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I found out my spouse was having an affair by going through her texts. I confronted her, it was really ugly and heartbreaking with a lot of begging for forgiveness, and I was told that it was mostly an emotional affair with some kissing and handholding. Something still was not sitting right with me. The following day I engaged in some higher level snooping and found out that there was sex. So basically everything I found out so far has been through snooping. While my spouse is very apologetic and there has been a great deal of crying and emotional turmoil on both sides, she has made a few snarky (and serious) remarks about her total lack of privacy at my hands. I did apologize for my actions but I’m trying to get her to understand that, so far, she has not made any progress towards regaining my trust. Over the past week there have several layers of incredible deceit.[/quote]

Yikes that’s rough.  Sorry, OP. I think your snooping was fair given the lies. In my opinion, she really doesn’t deserve privacy right now. If she refuses to be open, I’d guess it’s because she still wants to see/sleep with this guy. [/quote]

The snooping is such a minor offense the first time and I think the second time you did it it was justified. You apologized (which is impressive) and I don’t think she has any business bringing it up again. [/quote]

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