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[quote=Anonymous][quote]Hi OP, if you really want another child, now is the time. If your hubby says he doesn't get the fertility issue - you just need to tell him that it is a FACT and that you know best and you are not listening to him because he is unknowledgeable about this subject. Don't even bother to argue - you know it's true and that is that. I have seen a few friends have no luck after this age. Others are fine. It's a gamble but how are you to know if you have time enough or not. The chances are not on your side after 38 so I would go with that (the averages). Discuss with your hubby if he is on board with having another one (at all) then it's in your hands and you decide on the timing - now sooner than later. These men often just don't get it. Then regrets happen later on down the road. Good luck to you[/quote]

This is pretty bad advice. Clearly, OP, he is not on board with having another child. So, you will need to accept this, or leave him and have another on your own or with someone else who wants one. Making him a parent when he doesn't want to be is not at all good for your relationship.

And being unilateral about important decisions is never a good idea.[/quote]

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