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Reply to "DH says he doesn't want more kids until we're settled, but he's the one who quit his job at age 38"
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[quote=Anonymous]Sounds like he is making all the decisions: about moving, job, and TTC #2. I think the real issue is exploring whether he really wants another child or not. He may not be on a position to know, since it sounds like he wants all his ducks in a row before that happens, but that is not possible in life. However, it seems to me that he's made the decision to change careers (with your blessing), and he's vetoed a move for a new job for you. I agree that many men are clueless about fertility. THey see a lot of ppl conceiving at 40, and assume it just happens. They don't always know the miscarriages, the IVFs, the people who haven't conceived at all despite treatments, etc. Take him to an OB/GYN appt and discuss the issue with the doctor. [/quote]
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