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Reply to "DH says he doesn't want more kids until we're settled, but he's the one who quit his job at age 38"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks for the reasonable response. I have calmed down somewhat. We agreed we wouldn't move until June 2013 at the earliest (this is due to a constraint he had about not leaving his new job in the new field too soon, which I supported). I passed up applying for a good job in a great location earlier this fall because of his desire not to move now. Alternatively, he says if he stay here we have to have a house first. But we can't really afford the type of house he wants in the neighborhood he wants -- he is pickier than I am -- due to his reduced salary. So by saying that we can't even start trying until June 2013 (really June 2014 because I wouldn't want to go on maternity leave right after starting a new job), I feel like he is either running out the clock or incredibly clueless about fertility. He claims he's seen the fertility stats and "it's not a big deal." [/quote]
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