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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Good for you OP on not dialing back your Mom role. Your boyfriend is being very selfish for trying to make you guilty for being a present + attentive parent to your kids. He KNEW you had kids when he decided to be in your life - how dare he complain about it now?? If he continues on like this > no one would blame you if you left this man-baby‼️[/quote] Awe thank you. 💛 Well, I suppose in my vacuum of not knowing if I am a jerk or not, this is very helpful. I am very sweet and attentive and loving with him, because I genuinely love him. But kids always first… has anyone else had to manage needs of BF while co-parenting? Dumb question I’m sure many of you have. [/quote] I did but he was great as he knew what my priorities were and he respected them. Sadly, my kids couldn’t accept him being in my life and they made his life miserable but he was a saint and never complained. He finally just said goodbye at which point my kids realized what they had done but it was too late. [/quote] Thanks for sharing sorry to hear this. Kids vs parents new significant other is very tricky. Sometimes I wonder if I can even EVER have a new spouse. My children will always be my top priority… [/quote]
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