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[quote=Anonymous]It's OK for your kids to love her and have a positive relationship with her. I loved my grandparents dearly, and it wasn't until after their deaths that I started to think about and come to terms with their deep imperfections, namely racism. I cherish the good memories and do my best to release the bad things by making sure I don't repeat those bad patterns or worldviews. It's also OK to keep your distance, establish your boundaries, and shut down bad behavior. You set the tone in your home. You are in charge of what you will accept/negotiate, and what you won't put up with. You do your best, and any disappointment or frustration she feels are hers to deal with. Her feelings are not your responsibility or your problem. Take care, OP.[/quote]
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