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[quote=Anonymous]If he isn't cheating, he still is the worst communicator on the planet.

If he cannot possibly see how either (1) indicative of cheating OR (2) indicative of complete dementia it is, that he simply "forgot to mention" he invited another adult and child to a dad-kid trip -- he is so oblivious he barely qualifies as sentient.

If he doubles down on "our kid just likes the other kid sooooo much, I invited them" -- well, has your kid talked about the other kid at all? Asked to see the other kid again? Did you have any idea your child was so very interested in this other child, until your DH told you so after the fact they'd all stayed together a second time?

Let's be clear -- you found out that the woman and her child were with DH and your child AFTER the fact, am I reading that right? After your DH and child had already spent those four days with them and come back home? And you found out from your child, not from DH? If that's all the case, your DH is the dumbest cheater ever because what cheating dad would use his kid as cover for an affair and NOT clean up the mess by either telling his kid not to tell mom (risky, kids do talk)?

In mature relationships the spouses talk to each other about things like, oh, inviting someone else along. Under any circumstances.

I know this board will leap to "he's cheating." Maybe he is. Does he do other wildly oblivious things like "forget" to tell you important details about things? Is this habitual, to do what he wants but not think it's worthwhile to tell you about changes in plans?
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