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[quote=Anonymous]Two small children during a pandemic with two working parents is very hard.  You said he changed after the new baby. I think all of those stressors, plus (this is a constructive observation based on what you wrote) managing you and your annual disappointments in him have pushed him to the breaking point. While you regularly have regrets and issues, it has pent up and boiled over for him. He needs a break, perhaps a sabbatical from work (and you) for a month or two if you all can afford it. Did he take paternity leave? ( I know this is not what PL is for but the man needs out and may not want a mental health note on his record).

The fact that he is not the happy go lucky guy right now that allowed you to overlook the boring guy does not mean that you get to throw in the towel. I can only imagine what 15 or so years of being told I’m boring etc by my “person” would do to a psyche. He didn’t give up on you or the marriage and in fact changed to make you happier, trips, sex etc. So now you be his rock.

Yes, the marriage can be salvaged..if you want to salvage it. Be his supporter until he can find his footing again.[/quote]

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