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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Six months?  LOL, anyone who wants to move in and start talking about marriage after ONLY six months is crazy.  I had college relationships 3x longer!  Seriously, you need to date someone for AT LEAST 1.5-2 YEARS before thinking of marriage.  Why?  Because six months is still the BS "have sex everyday" and "show your best side" phase a relationship.  After a year, that crap passes and you see the REAL person.  Then you decide.[/quote]

I don't agree with this at all. A lot can depend on the age when meeting someone. And the arbitrary  dating for 2 years before talking marriage trips so many people up.

It's not wrong OP would like to wait either/[/quote]

At what age does it makes sense that two people know each other well enough IN SIX MONTHS OF DATING to start talking about marriage?  That's fantasy talk.  Also, if it's a serious relationship there is zero need to rush into getting married.  Six month is half a year - HALF A YEAR!!!  Society today is just too impatient.  When I was younger a "long term" relationship was closer to a year...not six months.  Doesn't matter if you're age 20 or 50.  Six months is not enough time to really know someone.  Not to the point where you know the REAL person.  Not the "show the best side" person.

Also, I agree with OP.  She should wait because six months is way too short.  Unless this guy is insecure or something, there is no issue of waiting.  Again, six months is nothing for dating.[/quote]

Not so crazy if both parties are over 35. I disagree with you. Continuing to reply to me and typing in caps is not going to change that.[/quote]

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