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[quote=Anonymous]I just found out my spouse of 25 years has late stage alcoholism. I have truly never seen my spouse drink inappropriately or get drunk- EVER in all this time. From what I had seen, there was low-average drinking going on- 0-3 glasses of wine a week. Come to find out there has been day drinking, night drinking, all in different containers, hidden bottles in the house, in neighbor's trash bins, etc. There was obvious signs of a decline in functioning (unable to maintain employment, neglect of physical appearance, neglect of personal and family responsibility, but never thought the reason was alcohol. I kept suggesting therapy, financial planner, medication for depression etc, but nothing worked. What would you do in this situation? I feel so betrayed by the amount of deception. I feel the marriage is over. We have one child who is in middle school and I feel terribly about thinking of divorce, but this is not a healthy situation for anyone. [/quote]
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