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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, I dated someone who sounds like you. Nice woman, attractive, dressed well. But what is nice? She was polite to wait staff and kind to animals?

What she didn't have was real hobbies, curiosities, and a life plan. Nothing to make me think she had strong opinions about anything. Looked her up a few years ago and her life did not wind up being so great and that's sad. What are you doing to make yourself an interesting person so that someone wants to know you better?[/quote]

So I think these two guys are probably right, but their advice is not coming at it from the right angle.  As a woman who was not meeting the guys I wanted here my $.02.

Find out what you like, not to be an interesting person, but because you think it is interesting. Find out more about that whatever it is: gardening, canoeing, hiking, cooking, working on cars, whatever.  THEN, start dating, but think about the qualities YOU want in a LTR partner.  If you are constantly trying to be an interesting person for someone else, or make yourself into who someone else wants you to be, it won’t go well.
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