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[quote=Anonymous]I'm sorry OP.  That's really not fair of him  -- it sounds like he's not compromising at all right now.  If possible, what I would do is probably put off the topic for a little bit until yours and his feelings have cooled about it.  Then I would bring up the topic of the hotel again.  I get that both grandparents both want to see the baby, but what's important after the birth is how you feel and what you need.  The baby isnt going anywhere. A friend of mine had her mother in law stay with them after her baby was born (not her choice but I don't think she put up much of a fight).  She still says it was the worst part of the experience - not having any privacy and the MIL being around constantly after.  I would try to put it aside for now if you can because it sounds like he's dead set in his position and may not want to budge.  If you're okay with the hotel idea (and you think he will be eventually when he cools off) I would plan as though that were the plan.  Bring it up again in a few weeks and just assume for now that that's the plan.  I don't think you should budge on this any more than you have already (having them in a hotel is enough compromise)[/quote]

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