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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My mother is the toxic one in our family. Does your husband defend/support/back you up to your own mother when she’s being stupid? I feel like my husband never or rarely does, he just stays out if it. Sometimes it’s simple stupid stuff like where to put the high chair at dinner—I said to just leave it next to me, she yelled to stop treating her like a child and stormed off and never joined us for dinner. Other times it’s stuff like having too much to drink and walking ext to DH five feet in front of me and telling him that I’m such a b—— sometimes. He just kinda nods in acknowledgment to avoid conflict. I guess I never really expected him to back me up, but it still hurts. [/quote] He's suffering and waiting for you to do the right thing, which is to not see your mother as much. It's not his place to defend you. It's your place to defend him and yourself, but not actually seeing this terror. [/quote]
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